PRE-SCRIPT: All posts written under the #MyBachelorsDiary series, are born out of utmost confusion and the search for widom and clarity as regards dating, so its more like a cry for help. Kindly note that if i strike you as confusing, just make reference to the name of this Ghen Ghen Blog, and you will be fine.. **Shines Teeth. Plus i am a cute Young and Confused 22 Years 11 Months 30 day old child i Think oh..
Good morning great young mind, what’s cracking? What’s the 411? Kilon shele(whats going on in Yoruba)? Mehn as I write this post ehnnn.. My eye lids are nearly gumming together. The thing is I can like wahala shaaa… Now I was watching 24 Hours season 7… You know now the Series that has Jack Bauer
the Nigga that never dies, never has head ache,
knows how to start every car with a pen knife, that can drive ship oh, boat oh,
plane oh, and that never sleeps with woman. I mean that guy has been celibate for 7
seasons.. nawa oooo . That guy film trick too much jo
haba! Anyway I saw it till about 1:30 Am, and thought of Jilda till 2 AM when I
went off to lala land.. Sadly I had to do the 8-5 this morning, so I had to wake
up by 3: 47 Am, and do Noodles, and it was in the Noodles that my woes began.
Now my Big eyes made me go shopping for one tiny gadget on Konga.com hence I have
over shot budget again, and today is just 13th, mcheeww I tire
for me oh. They should deliver the thingy today, and thanks to POS and
Ojukokoro ( longer throat) I will have very little liquid cash for a while. Now
since I have over shot budget AGAIN!, plus the geh Friend is making me spend
like a fowl **Tongue out.. Well na Love ba **Angry face, I decided to be
having breakfast till I can hustle cash.. My Dear that’s how I went to the
store and got Noodles to make oh, did I state that Gas finished yesterday..
hehehe My Dad was so furious, the Dang thing lasted only 11 days, and it
finished hehehehe The pains of being a father sha.... Sooooo… I had to use
stove, yep a Kerosene stove. Now like many of you know, I am a WONDERFUL COOK (
now this is where I hype my self ) I can cook for Africa oh, highest there will
be too much Oil, or pepper, or salt, something is just always too much in Dads
voice.. heheheh and you guys know I USED (Emphsis on the used oo) to cook for
the family before Dr. came back. Now since July when she returned, I haven’t entered
kitchen to light nada, but this morning I had to not just light something, but
to Light a stove.. Kai And to make matters worse, the Wool abi Owu of the stove
had gone way down so lets just say it took 40 minutes to make instant noodles. Sadly
yeah, I ended up eating Chinese food this morning, heheheh I mean Noodles with
plenty water, the noodles was practically floating.. :( I couldn’t wait jo..
Moving ooonn.. A few of you awesome great minds know, I have been bitten, injected, and operated upon by the Love Bug, so let’s just say that I have been all MushyMushy.com in a while,
weeks to be precise, as we hit 6 weeks Yesterday, and remarkably we went a
week without Quarelling last week ( first in History although my shenanigans to
start a quarrel at midnight via Watsapp didn’t work :p
), but you see ehn last weekend had me thinking, it had me lost not just in
thoughts but in a total withdrawn state, as I kept asking myself Do I really
love this geh? Sadly the more I asked myself, the more confused I became, because
I realized that in all sincerity yeah, I
didn’t know what the hell love really is. So this morning I come to you awesome
people that have taught me weekly for the past
15 months with my ink of love nwantintin and my journal of thoughts wide
open to seek wisdom, and to get schooled. So I ask what is love? is love that
feeling of excitement we guys get when we see a woman we are attracted to? Is
love the arousing sexual feeling when one sees his or her significant other? Is
love companionship? Is love defined by butterflies in ones stomach, or chills
on ones spine at the sight of the beloved one as Wizkid my Nigggaaa and Tuface
make it seem? The truth is I am yet to really understand.
On my way to the 8-5 this morning, I unconsciously found myself singing:
“I fit die on top your matter eh.. Baby eh”
and I just wondered what would really make me die for a woman (well I can officially die Dr. Duru and Janyl Benyl that’s for sure), asin other than Juju or Efo Riro as all the ladies stated in the Life as Jilda’s boyfriends post, and then bam!! it had to be love. But how can I die for something I don’t understand? The truth is when I met Wajilda, it was on the most uncertain of situations. I mean I had just done one crazy business deal, so I was on the BRT calculating to ensure I hadn’t dropped below the 6 zeros dream, and there she was, the Beautiful crazy wahala small child with an I pad behind me ( I for tell the rest of the story, but una too like Amebo.. Hehhehe Esspcially Tosyne **Winks). In the past weeks, I have come to understand that her happiness is my top priority, (well after my Family sha) that her smile perfects everything, and that her voice makes everything right. Plus any night I sleep without her saying the solemn Good night, it seem like my head was stuck in a hurricane, and I just wouldn’t balance. But are those signs of Love? The truth is I don’t know if I am in love, cause I don’t quite understand what Love itself is, maybe I am just too young to do so **Raises Eye Brows... This is one of those posts I hope Mzz Sykik will comment on **Winks.
When I was 17 and 20-21 and half, love to me meant sex, and that was it. At other times, Love to me strictly meant companionship, and other times Happiness.. Its all just funny how I have so wanted to fall into something that I had little understanding about, and now that I am falling into it,
abi i don fall finish, I wonder
if I am actually falling into a Jacuzzii or just a bath tub. In the light of
all my searching in the past weekend, I thought of this my Wahala geh and
smiled, and then it hit me, that maybe love is a feeling that cannot be
explained, and nothing but a thought that creates a smile. I asked this question
on my Facebook page as a John the Baptist(to prepare the way for this post) and
someone prescribed a Bible passage to me.. mehn I have plenty Pastors on my FB
list oh, and it was 1 Corinthians chapter 13, and it stated something that hit
me.. Something like “Love is not proud..” this caught my attention the most,
and today I feel that one f the things love is that love is not proud to be
shown, and if someone loves you, the first thing the person will do is put you out
there, cause he or she is not too proud to show the world how formidably weak
he or she can be.
Great Young mind, regardless of what I think I found out last night, I can boldly tell you that I am not satisfied with my findings, and hence I seek more clarification as to the true definition of what love is. Is love based on Sex? as most of my contacts who when we gist about women tell me that sex makes them love their babes more.. Is love based on money? Cause most of my female friends who like to form Sherikoko and baby la hot believe that with no money they can NEVER fall in love with a guy.. Or is love based on Companionship, cause this is my Queue which I solidly stand for as I told my baby when we commenced that we are In this ish cause you complete me.. So Brovers and Bubbas, today I ask you what is love?! Cause from where I stand I am confused .com :(
Thank you for the past 7 minutes of your time, you guys do me a great honor. I mean each Monday when I wake up, I pray to God for his inspiration to write, because I know that you a very special and great human being would be sacrificing your time to read this… I just hope that I can learn from this post in the best possible way, as well as speak to another as confused as I am.
P.S; Happy Birthday in Arrears to Nike, she is a tad new here, but has been consistent on this blog for the past 3 Mondays, you mean a lot to us at YnC Bubba, and I feel so useless.com for missing out on mentioning this Earlier.. I take MTN, AIRTEL and Etisalat take Beg you oh.. Biko haf mercy. :)
P.P.S: Now Blogging has been a whole new experience for me like Vista J, and it feels so soothing releasing my thoughts out here with you guys, I mean Like Erniesha Tibs said, one thing about Blogging is you don’t know who will read a post, but you only hope it will inspire someone.. So in the light of my speech above, I am contemplating writing twice a week now.. hehehe I mean Tibs called me for like an Hour plus last weekend, and she in her Wonderful accent( Mehn Ernies voice is just amazing.. She be like “Hello papi””and it be like the Host of Angels just poked a brover in the tickling area :) kai Oga Mofaya You are enjoying ooo #naPlayo) showed gave me the me the You can do 2 a week speech, and I in turn wore CPC’s I can do it face heheh, so maybe, just maybe (emphasis on the Maybe oh) I might start writing twice a week. Mehn Okay I have spoken to Toinlicious also, and her Voice is Angelic.. I mean I heard it yeah, and I melted within me, I have spoken to Ugo of Beautiful Eagle too, and her voice is remarkable plus that Babe knows when I feel horrible, and she always just calls and I am like Hallelujah Somebory.. :) I likey her ooo. Wajolda, hold me oo. I mean it had me singing I fit die on top your matter eh… Ugo oh!! And I have also spoken to One+ THE ONE… Ewo!!! If you hear Ayo’s voice, you will trip for Africa.. Ayo be like “”John my Beloved”” and I be like damnn.. she gats to fine noni :) hehehe So the moral of my story is more Bloggers should ask for my Number and call me, :) hehehe.. Light Bulb My Birthhday is November 12th, that sounds like a good day to :).
P.P.P.S: I turn 23 in 30 days time, and I have this ambivalent feeling about it, its like damn!!! I am growing older now now… But anyhoo.. We cant stay Forever Young I guess. Ehen.. Ernies Birthday is on November 2nd… Dear TTT Fam, you guys berra be gearing up them gifts. :p
P.P.P.P.S: I was amazingly Blog lazy last week, plus the 8-5 was Kerosinely craaaazzzzyyy.. As in my table looked like a damn Paper recycling coy at one time, and so I couldn’t blog stalk that much, and I hate blogging with my Mobile and them touching body devices, but hey It’s a new week now, and in Eric Thomas’s voice THANK GOD ITS MONDAY… I will do beera this week ishe Allah. I found some reaaly cool blogs last night,.. Mehn I just hope they return my comment, cause them Bad like that. Cheers Fam, and do have a ghen-ghen week ahead. May this week make you shed Tears of Joy and say Thank you Jesus during its course.
Kindly click on all Highlighted names oh, I promise, you it would be worth the read, but make sure you click on my Blog mothers name first oh :).
@The GIRL FRIEND.. I really don’t know what love is, but if the rhythm of songs playing in my head for you isn’t one of love, then Baby I will dance regardless, cause you make me truly happy like that. Plus I think you should drop a comment Ijagz, its about time nah isn’t it? :*