Turn up turn up ladies and gentle men, good morning great Young minds, how are you guys doing? How was the weekend fam? Mehn mine was very ghen-ghencious ooo.. It was just awesome in all ramifications, and **in Wajilda’s voice I was just chilling like a pimping all the while.. So how was yours? Mehn on Friday night I had dinner with my family; I mean just us kids, and **In Mzz Sykik’s voice oh My days! it was very ghen ghen. I mean we actually ate from the same bowl. Now the last time this happened was like 15 years ago or something, cause we all had been in and out of the house for one reason or the other. Hehehe you needed to see me smiling like a fish. Oh well the real story can only be seen on Instagram :) Wait oh! How many of us have seen World war Z? that movie is gangster and scary like hell. I loved when Brad pitt injected himself with the illness syrup, and walked past those zombies. Mehn it was gangster. Heheheh, Wajilda proposed I saw White house down a while back, but when I saw it on Saturday yeah, I didn’t relly like it. I think Olympus has fallen was way cooler.. Oya nor vex, the last Aproko for the day is DID YOU GUYS SEE OR HEAR OF THE SCAM THAT JUMIA.COM PLAYED ON US NIGERIANS ON BLACK FRIDAY? Choi! Those guys need to be sued to court.. Where my Barristers at? Raliat of life, and Beautiful C.P.C? We so need to do some arbitration kinda move on them oh.. Haba! Kilode? Thats day light yahoo yahoo. **Wears straight face. I mean I am not an Android fan, but hearing a Galaxy S5 going for N41,500 was like the temptation of turning stone to bread, so I almost went for it, and bam! When Black Friday came, no S5, No PS4! I was just laughing cause having that I am at
the bottom of the food chain here, most of my Oga Boss’ at the office where planning to raid there
with their cards.. Jumia I hail thee oooo.
So I believe that it is now an open secret that me and the one girl I have loved the most all my life are no longer an item! Mehn the past 20 days have been mega difficult for me, and it took GOD’S grace and a lot of shrink advice from you guys in the YnC team as well as the TTT fam blog to help me heal. Not forgetting a conscious decision to turn up and choose to be happy regardless of the fact that I knew deep within me that I was bleeding like a beheaded chicken, regardless of the fact that I was hurting and that my emotions were fuckedup.com, I still had to heal. I thank GOD I have now, and I can now pursue woman with ease now :) I mean I really loved that child, and it was painful to let her go.. Dr. Duru said something to me that had me thinking.. It went something like “if you don’t make someone happy enough, they will never stay” But I could bet that I tried my best nah :(, but maybe that was even my mistake, maybe I tried too hard.
Oya JdB shake of this
Mushy Mushy feeling sharp sharp. don’t even start :(.. So this alone
kinda justified why we split, probably one of us once happy enough.. Well plus
the Nigerian factor sha… So this post is a cry for help, and I will make it as
SHORT AS POSSIBLE.. **Wears Evil grin..
|My current disposition towards dating...|
Now in my 23 years, 20 days of life on earth, I have dated only 3 ladies… Now my first lets call her T. T was my 1st first love, and I loved her to my bone marrows. We split looonng ago, nearly 5 years now or more, but as at today yeah, merely the sound of her angelic voice stirs me up like boiling water on a 212 degrees hot cooker. But the thing is T didn’t like me in return, so when my 1 man relationship with her ended
even before it began, I broke up all ties with her, and as at today we
are more of “I USED TO KNOW”, than friends… I only added her on IG last week
sef, and that’s the only contact we have, okay plus we speak to each
other twice a year, July 8th and November 12th. I mean I loved T so much that being but a contact, or should I say me, distancing myself from
her feels like the best way to heal. My Second was M. Mehn M was was just a sweetie by default.. Funny thing is while we were
dating, M’s Mum really liked me, and I was like the SON kinda Boyfriend.
Everyone liked me, I mean I am a sweetie nah, so whats there not to like…
OKAY THAT WAS A JOKE OH! So today
me and M are friends, we hangout and whenever we see ourselves we be like **in
Wajildas voice.. Myyyy Niiigggaaa.. And just tease each other about who we are
currently dating and all, M is even dating my friend now sef. Now that brings
me to the problem.. My Baby I. W. Now I.
W. is the the best thing that has ever happened to me. She is in a way my life,
my heart beat, the center of my world, and one of the best things that have
ever happened to this young and confused Nigga.. I kinda told Toin Alsina that I wasn’t
going to date again and all till further notice cause I stupidly pushed I.W away with these crazy words: “Baby I need time to think, I need to clear my
head.” DEAR ICE AND OTHER BRETHRENS IN THE BUILDING, JUST
A KIND HEAD’S UP. PLEASE NEVER TELL A GIRL YOU TRULY HAVE FEELINGS FOR THOSE WORDS,
CAUSE IF THE GEH GO AND THINK HER OWN, MY BROTHER, YOUR OWN E HAF FINISH! THEM
GO OVERTHINK SO TEYYYY, THEY WILL GIVE YOU EVICTION LETTER AFTERWARDS. **Crying in French
So dear Team YnC, my question this morning is can we just be friends? Do you guys think that two people, who loved each other scarra can actually stick together, grab pizza at Dominos and just hang without emotions getting in the way? Mehn the truth is in my young and confused eyes I dont think that thing is in any way possible. I mean if my Baby okay sorry.. I need to get used to this EX thing.. If my Ex-Baby and I actually sit down to watch a movie, or grab a cup at coldstone (of which she is a fan like Esther Koko), I wouldn’t be watching the movie or licking the ice cream, I would but be cursing myself out internally as to how I could lose someone so precious, and trust me that’s not heaLthy. Was chatting wit Itimi yesterday, and the babe
who by the way is coming to Lagos this week, and I am so planning
to hangout with :D advised that I call my Ex- Baby; I.W since I missed her so much, but the truth is I
can’t, cause I love her so much. So I need your help, please, WHAT DO I DO? I mean I miss my Ex- Baby
so freaking much, that most times I just reminisce and practically jam my head
on the wall, but the truth is going back to her with a “will you be my friend proposal”
would only complicate things. Since we split, we spoke the longest on the eve
of Thanksgiving, and my it felt good hearing that beautiful classy voice that
makes everything alright, that wonderful bedroom voice.. Choi Nonso e bu ewu!
How could you lose her? But you see, its over its over ni, that’s how I see it
Fam. So what do I do? Please, Cause in all sincerity yeah, I want her as much
as I don’t want her.
Thank you for the past 7 minutes of your time great young mind, you guys give me a reason to live. I mean right now yeah, its no more about the page views. Sincerely, I cannot remember the last time I checked that page views thingy,
mehn My Blog mother has over a million page views
ooo.. I mean damn! How do they do it? but its about the care, the love, the
support in creating a better me that you guys put into this blog that sincerely
matters. I mean you guys rock, and all I can only pray that GOD blesses you all,
and that even as December has commenced today, you shall have several reasons to
smile, and little or no reason to break a
tear. Happy New month fam, you guys make living worth it, aswear.
P.S: Is it me or it don’t feel like Christmas Is near? I mean its December 1st, and the weather is sooo hot.. I mean its like all the breeze in Nigeria have gone on strike, and there is just hot air blowing… I think it’s the Lagos weather that’s killing the vibe.. I cant smell Christmas, :( but we shall survive.
P.P.S: I should be getting a warning letter at the 8-5 today, oya lemme gist you why… You see they took away WiFi from Mobiles last friday! I mean WiFi… Who does that? I was so pissed last Friday that I left my station at a couple of minutes to 4PM, regardless my tasks were still existent. I was just angry jo! I know that was careless, but who takes away WiFi in the year 2014? That’s just mean.. Anyway, I gats up my game professionally I guess, plus I am walking on a work around the WiFi blocking #SteveJobsmodeactivated. **Shines teeth
P.P.P.S: Do you guys see that beautiful lady on the YnC background? The one with the perfect as smile? Well that’s the beautiful Ronni Davies.. Now that child is so beautiful, and has this charimg voice. Her kinda makes everything close to serene..Youu know that feeling you have in the morning when you just want to talk to your your Bae, well that’s how I feel each time I want to talk to Ronnii, there is this wonderful, lovey dovey feeling about her. Yep, she is my Blog crush for the week, Isnt she just amazing? @ Ice, hehehehehe nigga Eat your heart out.. :p
Cliverly: Now this Bubba is just awesome.. As I type this line ehn, I am smiling like a fish.. Seriously, I am wearing my Mr. Nigeria smile… Now this Fine geh known as Engr. Cliverly Chioma called me yesterday, and she has this wonderful awesomely beautiful voice. Now I was just sleeping waiting for TCN to return power, and her call came through.. Mehn when she mentioned her name her name ehn, I practically sprung to my feet from lala land.. You know that kinda feeling yiou have when someone injects coffee into your blood stream? like when they pour you cold water when you are sleeping? Well I had it, and I was smiling like a fish all through te 17 minutes call.. She is an awesome human being aswear, and I was touched by how she wanted me to heal, I mean it meant a lot to me. She is both a fashion blogger, and a confused blogger. Hehehe I love the way she mixes fashion and reality, its just priceless.
Mzz Sykik.. Now I just love this lady.. You know why? Well its cause I don’t know why that’s why J. She is just awesome, and I am humbled at the fact that she is easy to relate to regardless that she is a tad older than I am. Now I hate being ignored, and I love the fact that she always replies my Emails, she is just awesome like that. Plus there is this humility that comes wither her mails, and it makes me feel so loved.. Truly, that’s all I ever want to be, LOVED. Mzz Sykik is a reality blogger to the core, and trust me, her reality is as exciting as exciting can get. If you haven’t been to her Blog Fam, you are on a loooooonnnngggg thing.
A huge welcome to Morayo Yunus, Cassandra and Superlux.. Now I am usually pumped up each time I see new comments down here, so you guys are mega welcome. You mean a lot to us, so I beg you in the name of Access Bank, Airtel and Exxxon Mobil to not leave us oh, I cannot stand another heart break. In Banky-w’s voice.. Please don’t break whats left of my heart. J Welcome on board fam..
F.N: Now I would like to say a very heart filled thank you to Mzz Erniesha for the YnC logo, I mean I had wanted it all the while, and I loved it once I saw it. She was kind enough to do a series of them, and I thank her so much for the love and effort. Ernie is amazing. Thank you Bubba, you are amazing by default. Also, I am trying a lil bit of something with our (yes ke, na all of us get am) YnC blog, and It entails having a blog crush weekly.. I wanted to put up CPC’s picture cause she is my major crush, but I couldn’t find it no more L **Crying in French. Every week, I kinda steal a picture from IG, and put up as template. Its actually open to anyone, so watch out, cause I might steal your picture next.. heheheh Cc Toinlicious :p.However if I steal your picture, and you don’t feel too comfortable wit it, kindly feel free to send me a kind email, and I will take it down ASAP.
Do have a very ghen ghen week oh, and np matter what, please find a reason to smile. Dear Gbemi, please check your Email Bubba, or your spam. Thank you fam. Cheers.